Changed the code so that your button always shows the player menu, since "show my group" option is no longer available in Grid
30000.1
Updated TOC version number
Threw lots of code around and tried other stuff to get around the "SetFocus" bug... didn't work though, so I ended up with an usable player (self) menu. Well if you don't count "Set Focus"...
Known caveats
SetFocus will most likely not work.
There is no way around for now, it's a taint issue that's documented by Blizz.
Could be a bit memory expensive ATM.
I recommend using clique or similar stuff if you need to set the focus, that's more useful anyway...